February 19, 2013 § 2 Comments
Norah Jones is coming to India in march! Rather GOING to India… since I am not THERE! :(:(
But don’t worry Norah, I will see you live one day!
But I really really love the posters and the art these people made for the shows. Absolutely adore them! Definitely my wallpaper for the next six months. 🙂 Check them out.
January 29, 2013 § Leave a comment
A delightful piece of writing…
—via Brain Pickings—
Anton,26 writes to his older brother Nikolai,28.
… You have often complained to me that people “don’t understand you”! Goethe and Newton did not complain of that…. Only Christ complained of it, but He was speaking of His doctrine and not of Himself…. People understand you perfectly well. And if you do not understand yourself, it is not their fault.
I assure you as a brother and as a friend I understand you and feel for you with all my heart. I know your good qualities as I know my five fingers; I value and deeply respect them. If you like, to prove that I understand you, I can enumerate those qualities. I think you are kind to the point of softness, magnanimous, unselfish, ready to share your last farthing; you have no envy nor hatred; you are simple-hearted, you pity men and beasts; you are trustful, without spite or guile, and do not remember evil…. You have a gift from above such as other people have not: you have talent. This talent places you above millions of men, for on earth only one out of two millions is an artist. Your talent sets you apart: if you were a toad or a tarantula, even then, people would respect you, for to talent all things are forgiven.
You have only one failing, and the falseness of your position, and your unhappiness and your catarrh of the bowels are all due to it. That is your utter lack of culture. Forgive me, please, but veritas magis amicitiae…. You see, life has its conditions. In order to feel comfortable among educated people, to be at home and happy with them, one must be cultured to a certain extent. Talent has brought you into such a circle, you belong to it, but … you are drawn away from it, and you vacillate between cultured people and the lodgers vis-a-vis.
Cultured people must, in my opinion, satisfy the following conditions:
- They respect human personality, and therefore they are always kind, gentle, polite, and ready to give in to others. They do not make a row because of a hammer or a lost piece of india-rubber; if they live with anyone they do not regard it as a favour and, going away, they do not say “nobody can live with you.” They forgive noise and cold and dried-up meat and witticisms and the presence of strangers in their homes.
- They have sympathy not for beggars and cats alone. Their heart aches for what the eye does not see…. They sit up at night in order to help P…., to pay for brothers at the University, and to buy clothes for their mother.
- They respect the property of others, and therefor pay their debts.
- They are sincere, and dread lying like fire. They don’t lie even in small things. A lie is insulting to the listener and puts him in a lower position in the eyes of the speaker. They do not pose, they behave in the street as they do at home, they do not show off before their humbler comrades. They are not given to babbling and forcing their uninvited confidences on others. Out of respect for other people’s ears they more often keep silent than talk.
- They do not disparage themselves to rouse compassion. They do not play on the strings of other people’s hearts so that they may sigh and make much of them. They do not say “I am misunderstood,” or “I have become second-rate,” because all this is striving after cheap effect, is vulgar, stale, false….
- They have no shallow vanity. They do not care for such false diamonds as knowing celebrities, shaking hands with the drunken P., [Translator’s Note: Probably Palmin, a minor poet.] listening to the raptures of a stray spectator in a picture show, being renowned in the taverns…. If they do a pennyworth they do not strut about as though they had done a hundred roubles’ worth, and do not brag of having the entry where others are not admitted…. The truly talented always keep in obscurity among the crowd, as far as possible from advertisement…. Even Krylov has said that an empty barrel echoes more loudly than a full one.
- If they have a talent they respect it. They sacrifice to it rest, women, wine, vanity…. They are proud of their talent…. Besides, they are fastidious.
- They develop the aesthetic feeling in themselves. They cannot go to sleep in their clothes, see cracks full of bugs on the walls, breathe bad air, walk on a floor that has been spat upon, cook their meals over an oil stove. They seek as far as possible to restrain and ennoble the sexual instinct…. What they want in a woman is not a bed-fellow … They do not ask for the cleverness which shows itself in continual lying. They want especially, if they are artists, freshness, elegance, humanity, the capacity for motherhood…. They do not swill vodka at all hours of the day and night, do not sniff at cupboards, for they are not pigs and know they are not. They drink only when they are free, on occasion…. For they wantmens sana in corpore sano [a healthy mind in a healthy body].
And so on. This is what cultured people are like. In order to be cultured and not to stand below the level of your surroundings it is not enough to have read “The Pickwick Papers” and learnt a monologue from “Faust.” …
What is needed is constant work, day and night, constant reading, study, will…. Every hour is precious for it…. Come to us, smash the vodka bottle, lie down and read…. Turgenev, if you like, whom you have not read.
You must drop your vanity, you are not a child … you will soon be thirty.
It is time!
I expect you…. We all expect you.
December 12, 2012 § Leave a comment
Let us speak not of you or me
Of what has been said or unspoken yet..
Lest it violate that which is sacred
But with each step forward
For memories time reclaims with every dusty mile
And maybe in a moment or an eternity
You will see…
A thousand adieus
But in vain my dear friend
For in your deepest
We ll meet again.
Found this poem on my long-dead other blog I used to have ages ago. Time affects people in every different way. Friends sometimes grow apart or are forced apart by life and distance. Or misunderstandings. But true friendship always lasts… through thick and thin!
December 6, 2012 § Leave a comment
November 26, 2012 § 1 Comment
-Books You Haven’t Read-Books You Needn’t Read-Books Made For Purposes Other Than Reading-Books Read Even Before You Open Them Since They Belong To The Category Of Books Read Before Being Written-Books That If You Had More Than One Life You Would Certainly Also Read But Unfortunately Your Days Are Numbered-Books You Mean to Read But There Are Others You Must Read First-Books Too Expensive Now And You’ll Wait Till They’re Remaindered-Books ditto When They Come Out In Paperback-Books You Can Borrow From Somebody-Books That Everybody’s Read So It’s As If You Had Read Them, Too-Books You’ve Been Planning to Read for Ages-Books You’ve Been Hunting for Years Without Success-Books Dealing With Something You’re Working on at the Moment-Books You Want to Own So They’ll Be Handy Just in Case-Books You Could Put Aside Maybe To Read This Summer-Books You Need To Go With Other Books On Your Shelves-Books That Fill You With Sudden, Inexplicable Curiosity, Not Easily Justified-Books Read Long Ago Which It’s Now Time To Re-read-Books You’ve Always Pretended To Have Read And Now It’s Time To Sit Down And Really Read Them-New Books Whose Author Or Subject Appeals To You-New Books By Authors Or On Subjects Not New (for you or in general)-New Books By Authors Or On Subjects Completely Unknown (at least to you)
November 21, 2012 § 2 Comments
I have recently discovered that used books on amazon are much much cheaper than kindle editions. Of course I should pass on the valuable information that most books which have exhausted their copyright period are generally available free of cost. Which means all those classics from a hundred years before? Yours for free if you have a kindle!
But nothing beats print. I love the books…old ones. The ones you can touch. And smell. And open and curl up in bed turning pages. So heres my new stock that just arrived from amazon!
J D Salingers’ ‘Catcher in the rye’ has been eluding me for months so I finally caught hold of a copy. Maybe I will take it up first!